Photos by Anna Powell Denton. “I started posting photos on Instagram because I didn’t have any close friends who lived nearby,” says Shoko von Werder, a Tokyo native and mother of five, who now lives in Indiana. “But I never thought anything would happen — I didn’t even think I was fashionable.” Here, Shoko shares…
Read moreWe’re Thrilled to Announce…
Hi! We are so excited to announce that we’re launching a new weekly newsletter: Big Salad. Each email will feature 100% original content, while still bringing Cup of Jo’s warm, welcoming approach and curiosity about the world. Starting this Friday, we’ll be sending one weekly email. Each issue will feature a fun person — think: comedians,…
Read moreHow Did You Connect With Your Baby When Pregnant?
After keeping what feels like the biggest secret, I’m excited to share that I’m 21 weeks pregnant! My husband Max, our toddler Ella and I are SO stoked to add another little dude to our crew. One of the best things about this second pregnancy has been feeling more confident and prepared for all the…
Read moreFall Getup Week: Proof Men’s Casual Style Can Be Comfortable and Easy
A laid-back outfit can be intentional, striking that perfect chord between comfort and effort. Casual doesn’t mean careless. That’s the rallying cry for Day 5, an outfit that dispels the mindset that “trying” means uncomfortable. We’re all about killing the stereotype that you have to choose between feeling good in your clothes and looking good…
Read moreDivorced Mom’s Guide to Classic Ex-Husband’s Tasks
Katia Wish is a divorced mom recording the joys and challenges of co-parenting. She writes children’s books and teaches illustration at Massachusetts College of Art and Design; her new zine is MAMA IS…. You can follow her on Instagram, if you’d like. P.S. Different types of hugs and how to do anything.
Read moreAre You a Party Host or Enthusiastic Guest?
The other day, a CoJ reader asked a friendship etiquette question… “We host friends regularly,” commented JW on this post about party food. “But we almost never get invited by anyone else. My family enjoys hosting and we have a house that’s set up for it, but it can feel lonely always initiating and hosting…
Read moreFall Getup Week: A Casual Outfit Combining Old and New Details
From vintage-inspired sneakers to modernized plaids, this fall ensemble interweaves enduring staples with fresh details for an outfit with nostalgic roots and a contemporary edge. Special thanks to Thursday Boot Co. for believing in Primer’s mission and sponsoring this Getup! The seasons are changing, and so should your wardrobe. But updating your style doesn’t mean…
Read moreFall Getup Week: Business Casual Beyond Blazers and Khakis
Experience a reimagined approach to business casual that blends traditional elements with modern versatility. The term “business casual” often evokes a well-worn path of blazers and khakis—reliable, but hardly inspiring. What if you could redefine that path, creating a look that is both professional and refreshingly modern? The secret lies in strategic pairing. Imagine a…
Read more6 Things I Spotted Women Wearing in Copenhagen (Plus, a Big Sale)
This summer, as I mentioned, the boys and I spent four glorious days exploring Copenhagen. And while we ate our weight in pastries and swam in the harbor, I couldn’t stop soaking up all the beautiful street style. Pinstripes! Trench coats! Fisherman sweaters practically begging for a hair tuck! So, I thought it would be…
Read moreBad Day? Have a Bowl of Pastina
If you ever need proof that eating well often means living well, look no further than Dan Pelosi… Pelosi, known to most as Grossy Pelosi (the nickname is a riff on the main character in the movie Never Been Kissed), exploded on the scene during the pandemic when he chronicled his home-cooking escapades on Instagram, inviting…
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