By Dawson La, Materials Science and Engineering (MEng)
Ten months ago, in October 2022, I found myself feeling anxious, fearful, and unsure about what was to come. I was on the verge of starting my degree in Materials Science and Engineering as a freshman. Diving into the deep end wasn’t something my previously shy and reserved self was used to. Reflecting back, I recognize a year filled with personal development, challenges, and plenty of enjoyment! But what lessons have I learned this year, and where do I stand now?
One of the initial and most formidable challenges I encountered was forming friendships. This is undoubtedly one of the more daunting aspects of beginning university, and if you’re exploring this as a future student, it may be one of your primary concerns. On my first day moving into my dorm, several days prior to the start of term, I spent the entire day sequestered in my room because I felt too intimidated to go out and introduce myself to others. However, as I sit here today, I can assert that I’ve created some of the best friendships I’ve ever had at this university and in this program. I have cultivated a second family here at Imperial, and it all started with engaging in small conversations with people who were in similar circumstances. So, what did I discover? I discovered that it’s always advantageous to take a leap at the beginning of the year. If you don’t feel completely ready or at ease, don’t fret! There will be countless ice-breaker opportunities and events designed to encourage interaction with others. I also learned that if you can embody one quality, it should be authenticity. There are myriad individuals across the course and university; you are certain to find people who resonate with you.
Another obstacle I needed to navigate was the workload and the complexity of the material. There was indeed a leap from A-levels, and in some respects, an even greater jump from the first term to the second. Being immersed in an environment like that isn’t always conducive to your confidence; you might observe others studying and feel inadequate. Several factors assisted me in overcoming that sensation, one being the realization that everyone shares similar struggles. If you find something perplexing, I can nearly assure you that there are others who feel the same way. Therefore, seek assistance. This may be the foremost important lesson to grasp in the first year. Ask for help from your fellow students and the faculty!
This leads me to my next observation. The faculty in Materials are extraordinary. They genuinely want you to succeed and are aware that students face challenges. They empathize with us and maintain open lines of communication throughout the year regarding our concerns. I didn’t fully leverage the pastoral support until the year’s end, but I wish I had done so earlier. I previously mentioned taking leaps – I took one at the beginning of the year by becoming a year well-being representative. This role allowed me to connect with the staff members, which is immensely beneficial. There are numerous ways to engage with staff, and it’s undoubtedly one of the best actions you can take for yourself! My primary lesson from this aspect of university life is to make the most of the assistance available to you. You can never have too much help!
Overall, this year has enlightened me that feelings of nervousness, both before and during university, are almost always unfounded and can be alleviated by the vast array of support available from faculty and peers. It has shown me that I’m never truly alone, and it has taught me how to find enjoyment amidst stressors like exams and deadlines.