Authored by Dawson La, Materials Science and Engineering (MEng)
Ten months ago, in October 2022, I was overwhelmed with anxiety, fear, and uncertainty about the future. I was on the verge of starting my degree in Materials Science and Engineering as a freshman. Jumping into the unknown was not something my previously timid and reserved self was used to. Looking back now, I recognize a year filled with personal growth, challenges, and a lot of enjoyable moments! But what lessons have I gathered, and where do I stand now?
One of the first and most intimidating obstacles was forming friendships. This is often one of the most intimidating parts of starting university, and if you’re an incoming student, it could be a significant worry for you. On my first day moving into my halls, just days before classes commenced, I spent the whole day secluded in my room, too afraid to emerge and meet others. Today, I’m pleased to report I’ve forged some of the best friendships I’ve ever had, here at university and within my program. I’ve discovered a second family at Imperial, and it all began with engaging in casual conversations with others who were in similar situations. What have I discovered? I’ve realized that it’s always beneficial to take a bold step at the beginning of the year. If you’re not quite prepared or comfortable, don’t fret! There will be an abundance of ice-breaker activities to assist you in connecting with others. I also learned that if you can be anything at all, be your true self. With such a diverse range of individuals in the program and university, you’re likely to find those who resonate with you.
Another hurdle was the volume of work and the complexity of the content. There was undoubtedly a transition from A-levels, and in some respects, an even steeper leap from the first term to the second. Being thrust into such a setting can unsettle your confidence; you might observe others studying and feel out of place. What supported me during this time was the reminder that everyone shares the same experience. If something isn’t clear, I can almost assure you others are puzzled too. So, don’t hesitate to seek assistance. This could be the most crucial insight to grasp in your first year. Reach out to your peers and the faculty!
This brings me to my next point. The staff in the Materials department are remarkable. They genuinely want you to succeed and comprehend the challenges students encounter. They show empathy towards us and maintain ongoing communication throughout the year regarding our concerns. I didn’t fully take advantage of the pastoral support until late in the year, but I wish I had done so earlier. I mentioned taking risks earlier – I did take one at the start of the year by becoming a year wellbeing representative. This role enabled me to connect with the staff members, which is incredibly beneficial. There are numerous ways to engage with faculty, and it’s one of the best decisions you can make for yourself! My primary lesson from this aspect of university is to capitalize on the assistance available. You can never receive too much help!
In summary, this year has illustrated to me that feelings of anxiety, both prior to and during university, are often unfounded and can be alleviated through the support options provided by faculty and fellow students. It has shown me that I’m never truly alone and how to find enjoyment in the midst of stressors like exams and deadlines.