Authored by Dawson La, Materials Science and Engineering (MEng)
Ten months ago, in October 2022, I felt anxious, fearful, and uncertain about what lay ahead. I was on the verge of starting my degree in Materials Science and Engineering as a freshman. Entering the unknown was not something my formerly shy and reserved self was used to. Looking back, I recognize a year brimming with personal development, challenges, and a great deal of enjoyment! But what lessons did this year impart, and what is my current situation?
One of the initial and most intimidating challenges I encountered was forming friendships. This is undoubtedly one of the more daunting elements of embarking on university life, and if you’re reading this as a future student, it may be one of your primary concerns. On my first day moving into my shared housing, a few days before classes commenced, I spent the whole day sequestered in my room because I felt too intimidated to step out and introduce myself to others. Sitting here today, though, I can assert with confidence that I’ve forged some of the finest friendships I’ve ever had, here at this university and in this program. I’ve discovered a second family at Imperial, and all it involved was engaging in small talk with individuals in similar situations. So, what have I grasped? I’ve learned that it’s always beneficial to take a chance at the beginning of the year. If you’re not feeling ready or at ease, don’t fret! There will be countless icebreaker opportunities and events to assist you in connecting with others. I also discovered that if you can embody one thing, be authentic. There is a vast array of individuals throughout the course and university; you’re sure to meet people who resonate with you.
Another obstacle I needed to navigate was the workload and the complexity of content. There was certainly a leap from A-levels, and in some respects, a more significant jump from the first term to the second. Being thrust into such an environment isn’t always beneficial for your self-assurance; you might observe others studying and feel inadequate. There were a few strategies that aided me in coping with that sensation, one being the reminder that everyone shares your experiences. If something doesn’t make sense, I can almost assure you there are at least a few others who are equally confused. Therefore, seek assistance. This might be the single most crucial lesson to embrace in your first year. Request help from your classmates and the faculty!
This leads me to my next point. The faculty in Materials are exceptional. They are genuinely invested in your success and are aware that students face challenges. They relate to students and maintain ongoing communication with us throughout the year regarding our concerns. I didn’t truly take advantage of the pastoral support until the year’s end, but I wish I had done so earlier. I mentioned earlier about taking leaps – I did take one at the year’s outset by becoming a year well-being representative. This role allowed me to become acquainted with the faculty members, which is immensely valuable. There are numerous avenues to connect with faculty, and it’s undoubtedly one of the finest choices you can make for yourself! My primary lesson from this aspect of university is to leverage the assistance available to you. You can never receive too much help!
Overall, this year has shown me that anxious feelings, both leading up to and during university, are nearly always irrational and can be mitigated with the multitude of support resources accessible from faculty and fellow students. It has taught me that I’m never truly alone, and it has shown me how to derive enjoyment from life while managing sources of stress such as exams and deadlines.