Authored by Dawson La, Materials Science and Engineering (MEng)
Ten months ago, in October 2022, I was filled with anxiety, fear, and uncertainty about what lay ahead. I was preparing to embark on my journey in Materials Science and Engineering as a newcomer. Diving into the unfamiliar was not something my previous shy and reserved self was ready for. Reflecting now, I recognize a year brimming with personal development, challenges, and a lot of enjoyment! But what insights have I gained this year, and what is my current standing?
One of the initial and most intimidating hurdles I encountered was forging friendships. This is undoubtedly one of the more nerve-wracking aspects of beginning university, and if you’re reading this as a prospective student, it may be among your primary worries. On my first day of moving into my housing, a few days before the semester began, I spent the whole day sequestered in my room, too nervous to venture out and introduce myself to others. Sitting here now, I can affirmatively say that I’ve made some of the most remarkable friends I’ve ever encountered at this university and in this program. I’ve discovered a second family here at Imperial, and it all commenced with engaging in small talk with individuals in similar situations. So, what did I discover? I learned that it’s vital to take a chance at the commencement of the year. If you don’t feel prepared or at ease, don’t fret! There will be numerous ice-breaking opportunities and events to assist you in connecting with others. Additionally, I learned that if you can embody one trait, it should be authenticity. With such a diverse array of individuals in the course and university, you’re sure to find those who resonate with you.
Another significant challenge was the intensity of the workload and the complexity of the content. There was certainly a leap from A-levels, and in some respects, an even more substantial leap from the first term to the second. Being thrust into such an environment isn’t always beneficial for your self-esteem; you might see others studying and feel inadequate. Several things helped me cope with that sensation, one being the reminder that everyone is navigating the same challenges. If something isn’t clear to you, I can almost assure you that there are others who are equally confused. Therefore, don’t hesitate to ask for help. This might be the most crucial lesson you could learn in your first year. Seek support from both your peers and the staff!
This leads me to my next observation. The staff in Materials are exceptional. They genuinely want you to thrive and recognize that students face difficulties. They empathize with us and keep open lines of communication throughout the academic year regarding our challenges. I didn’t truly utilize the pastoral support until late in the year, but I wish I had taken advantage of it earlier. I mentioned the importance of taking risks previously – I did take one at the beginning of the year by becoming a well-being representative for my year. This role enabled me to build relationships with the staff members, which is incredibly valuable. There are many ways to connect with staff, and it is undoubtedly one of the best actions you can take for yourself! My primary takeaway from this facet of university is to capitalize on the assistance available to you. You can never have too much support!
In general, this year has taught me that feelings of anxiety, both prior to and during university, are nearly always unwarranted and can be eased through the many support avenues provided by staff and other students. It has enlightened me that I am never alone and how to find joy amidst stressors like exams and deadlines.