Written by Dawson La, Materials Science and Engineering (MEng)
Ten months back, in October 2022, I was overwhelmed with nerves, uncertainty, and a fair share of fear. I was on the verge of commencing my first year in Materials Science and Engineering at Imperial College London, and as someone who is naturally shy and reserved, venturing into the unknown felt daunting. Now, reflecting on the previous academic year, I recognize a journey rich with growth, hurdles, and memorable experiences. So, what insights have I gained, and where do I stand now?
One of the most significant obstacles I encountered early on was forming friendships. Beginning university can be intimidating, and if you’re an incoming student reading this, it’s perfectly normal to feel anxious about meeting new individuals. I recall spending my entire first day in my room, too apprehensive to go out and introduce myself. Fast forward to now, and I can proudly say I’ve forged some of the best friendships of my life—people who have become like a second family to me. What changed? I took small strides to connect with others, starting with straightforward conversations. I discovered that taking the initiative, even just a bit, can lead to significant relationships. Most importantly, I learned that being authentic is the best way to find your crowd—Imperial is brimming with diverse students, and there’s a spot for everyone.
Another significant challenge was adapting to the academic demands. The shift from A-levels to university-level content was considerable, and the transition from the first to the second term felt even more pronounced. It’s easy to feel like you’re lagging, especially when comparing yourself to peers. However, one of the most important lessons I learned is that everyone is experiencing similar struggles. If you’re finding it hard to grasp something, it’s likely others are as well. That’s why seeking help is so crucial—whether it’s from fellow students or professors. Don’t hesitate to reach out; teamwork and support are essential to overcoming tough times.
Discussing support, the staff in the Materials department have been remarkable. They truly care about students and are always receptive to feedback and communication. I didn’t fully utilize the pastoral support available until later in the year, and I regret not doing it sooner. One of the best decisions I made was becoming a year well-being representative. This position allowed me to connect with staff and gain a better understanding of the support systems available. Establishing connections with faculty members can be immensely advantageous, and I highly advise getting involved however you can. The assistance is there—you just have to seek it out.
In summary, this year has shown me that the anxiety I felt prior to and during university was often baseless. There are countless resources and individuals ready to help you achieve success. I’ve realized that I’m never truly alone, and that it’s entirely possible to enjoy university life, even amid the pressures of exams and deadlines.
By welcoming the challenges and leveraging the support around me, I’ve grown beyond what I ever anticipated in just one year. And if you’re about to embark on your own journey, understand that feeling nervous is okay—but also recognize that you are capable of more than you realize.