Ten months ago, in October 2022, I was overwhelmed with anxiety, fear, and uncertainty regarding the future. I was on the verge of starting my degree in Materials Science and Engineering as a first-year student. Embracing the unknown was not something my previously timid and reserved self was familiar with. Looking back now, I recognize it has been a year full of personal development, obstacles, and plenty of enjoyment. But what insights have I gained this year, and where do I find myself today?
One of the early and most intimidating obstacles was forming friendships. This is frequently one of the most nerve-wracking parts of commencing university, and if you are an incoming student, it may be one of your greatest concerns. On my first day moving into my residence, a few days before classes commenced, I spent the whole day hiding in my room, too fearful to venture out and introduce myself. Today, I can proudly say I’ve formed some of the most wonderful friendships at this university and in my program. I’ve discovered a second family here at Imperial, and it all initiated with casual conversations with others in similar circumstances. So, what have I learned? I learned that taking risks at the beginning of the year is beneficial. If you’re not prepared or comfortable, don’t panic! There will be numerous ice-breaking opportunities and events designed to help you connect with others. I also discovered that being genuine is essential. With such a wide array of people throughout the program and university, you’re sure to find those who truly relate to you.
Another hurdle was the volume of work and the complexity of the material. There was a noticeable shift from A-levels, and in some respects, an even larger jump from the first term to the second. Being in such an environment can be challenging for your self-esteem; you might observe others studying and feel inadequate. What helped me navigate this was remembering that everyone is experiencing the same challenges. If you’re struggling to grasp something, I can almost assure you that others are too. So, seek assistance. This could be the most vital lesson to take from your first year. Reach out to peers and faculty for support!
This brings me to my next observation. The faculty in Materials are exceptional. They genuinely desire for you to thrive and understand the challenges that students encounter. They show empathy and maintain ongoing communication with us throughout the year about our concerns. I didn’t fully take advantage of the pastoral support until the end of the year, but I wish I had done so earlier. I mentioned taking risks before – I embraced one by becoming a year well-being representative. This position enabled me to connect with the faculty, which has proven invaluable. There are various ways to engage with staff, and it’s one of the most beneficial steps you can take for yourself! My primary takeaway from this aspect of university is to make the most of the support available. There’s never too much help!
In summary, this year has shown me that feelings of nervousness, both prior to and during university, are frequently baseless and can be eased through the various support options provided by staff and fellow students. It has taught me that I am never alone and how to find joy despite pressures like exams and deadlines.