Authored by Dawson La, Materials Science and Engineering (MEng)
Ten months ago, in October 2022, I was overwhelmed with anxiety, fear, and uncertainty about what lay ahead. I was on the verge of starting my degree in Materials Science and Engineering as a freshman. Taking such a significant step wasn’t something my previously shy and introverted self was used to. Looking back now, I recognize a year filled with personal development, challenges, and a lot of enjoyable moments! But what have I discovered, and what’s my current status?
One of the primary and most intimidating challenges was forming friendships. This is frequently one of the most frightening elements of starting university, and if you’re an incoming student, it may be a considerable worry for you. On my first day moving into my residence, a few days prior to the start of classes, I spent the whole day sequestered in my room, too nervous to venture out and meet others. Now, I can proudly state that I’ve formed some of the finest friendships here at university and within my course. I’ve discovered a second family at Imperial, all stemming from initiating small conversations with people in similar circumstances. So, what have I learned? It’s always beneficial to take a chance at the start of the year. If you don’t feel prepared or comfortable, don’t fret! There will be ample opportunities for ice-breaking and events to facilitate connections with others. Also, if you can embody one quality, be yourself. With so many diverse individuals throughout the course and university, you’re sure to find those who resonate with you.
Another obstacle was the workload and the complexity of the material. There was certainly a transition from A-levels, and in some respects, an even greater jump from the first term to the second. Being in such an atmosphere can test your self-confidence; you might observe others studying and feel inadequate. What assisted me in this regard was the acknowledgment that everyone is experiencing similar struggles. If something doesn’t click, I can almost assure you others are likely in the same situation. So, seek assistance. This might be the most vital lesson to grasp in your first year. Reach out to peers and faculty!
This brings me to my next point. The staff in Materials are incredible. They genuinely want you to thrive and understand the challenges students encounter. They show empathy and maintain open lines of communication regarding our issues. I didn’t fully take advantage of the pastoral support until the end of the year, but I regret not doing so earlier. I referenced taking leaps before – I indeed took one at the beginning of the year by becoming a year well-being representative. This position enabled me to connect with the staff, which is immensely valuable. There are numerous opportunities to engage with staff, and it’s one of the best things you can do for yourself! My primary takeaway from this aspect of university is to make the most of the available support. You can never have too much!
All in all, this year has shown me that feelings of nervousness, both prior to and during university, are frequently misplaced and can be eased with the assistance provided by staff and fellow students. It has taught me that I’m never on my own and how to find pleasure even amidst stressors like exams and deadlines.